Meet me
Hi, I’m Viktoria a Sex Therapist and the Founder of Kiss Your Shame.
I’m a kölsche Mädche (a girl from Cologne, Germany) who has been living in the United States since 2018. You’re probably wondering how I got here! I suppose I watched too many Hollywood romances because, frankly, my life became one after I met my american husband in 2015. We fell in love from the very first touch. Our love story continued even across a long distance. After three years of traveling back and forth, I took the risk to follow my heart and moved to the United States. Leaving my friends and family behind was the toughest part of my journey. Today, I’m extremely glad that I made this decision because leaving my comfort zone opened new possibilities that I couldn’t have imagined. Choosing love means being brave and taking risks to step out of your comfort zone.
My background is in massage therapy and sexual therapy utilizing a Relationship Dynamic Theory approach. For 13 years, I worked in Germany helping clients with sexual disorders, traumatic life events, and blockages stemming from physical and mental abuse. I’ve witnessed too many people who deal with too much trauma without feeling vulnerable enough to seek help.
My questions for you are:
- How much sadness and disappointment can you endure in your life?
- When will you stop saying everything is fine even when your body and mind tell you otherwise?
- Why would you choose toxicity over awareness?
In my own life, I’ve struggled with mental and physical abuse as well as violence and alcoholism in my family. All of these traumas caused me depression, mistrust, feelings of worthlessness and disconnection because I wasn’t able to talk about my pain. I received a wake up call when my best friend died from cancer followed by my own cancer diagnosis. When I allowed myself to be vulnerable enough to share my story and said goodbye to my shame, fear, and guilt that were blocking my healing, I started living the life I wished to live.
I offer you a holistic approach to help you see the big picture of your situation by considering both the body and the mind. The journey to yourself is the best gift you can give yourself. Change is always possible when you are ready to seek it; living in love with fulfillment is always possible when you are ready to accept it. Make the first step to take control of your own path. I’m here. I want to listen. I want to feel and hear your story. Let me bring you back to your strength through vulnerability.
Feel free to email me to set up an appointment.
Places of my education:
www.biostudio.edu.pl
www.leben-im-einklang.de
www.oshouta.de
www.beziehungsdynamik.de